Most men had been conditioned to believe woman are the difficult specie to understand just as most ladies believe men are too difficult to please. But to me, I believe human beings generally are difficult to understand because we are all uniquely different in various ways with our various imperfections..
SO WHAT DO WE WOMEN REALLY WANT ?
Unless you are dealing with a problematic or troublesome woman, what a woman wants from you as her man is not as difficult as most men believed it to be. It depends mostly on your choice of a woman, what you really want from her, how much you understand her, knowing her imperfections and how ready you are to cope with them.
When you meet a woman of your choice, get to know what her flaws are (don't expect her not to have flaws, we all do. No one is perfect), then be sure these flaws are what you can cope with or help her to improve on. If you know you can't deal then no need having her around or wasting your time. Let her go!
When you have a woman whose imperfections you are ready to cope with, then love her, cherish her, adore her, make her to know how much she means to you. Give her your time, talk to her but most importantly, listen to her (women love a good listener and not a good talker).
Give her space to be herself, to express herself and to grow. If she believes she can fly then be her wings to fly so high. If she believes she need to reach up to the sky and touch the stars, be her ladder to get up there. Encourage her to be her better self, to be all what she is created to be.
Be her friend, her confidant. Be the one with whom she shares her deep seated fears, pains and her joy. Be her teacher and at the same time her student. Be her daddy and at the same time her baby. She needs you to protect her and not to dictate to or manipulate her. She needs you to guide her and not to spell everything out in details to her. A relationship is based on a bond but when this bond becomes a bondage, the joy and excitement is taken away and replaced with sadness .
Do not place to much expectation on her. Expecting too much from people only leads to disappointment. Never try to change her to what she is not unless she can see reasons with you and is willing to change. If you try to force your way with her, it would
only cause more problems than solutions.
Treat her like a queen and she will honour and adore you as her king and Lord.
As you lay your bed so shall you lie in it. Every woman deserves love and care and should be accorded so in full. So many problems militating against peaceful homes come from lack of understanding, commitment, honesty and selflessness from each party.
As you lay your bed so shall you lie in it. Every woman deserves love and care and should be accorded so in full. So many problems militating against peaceful homes come from lack of understanding, commitment, honesty and selflessness from each party.
Treat a woman right and see what you get in return. If you pamper your woman, you will get something out of her but otherwise, the woman can turn round and bite you, and show you the meaning of hell on earth!
-Alasake.
,,A relationship is based on a bond but when this bond becomes a bondage, the joy and excitement is taken away " - True!
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