There is no marriage without its own ups and downs. Couple fights and disagreed. But loving couple make
BENEFITS OF HAVING A BLISSFUL MARRIAGE
* Medical benefits*
Being in a blissful union has its own medical benefits. When you have a peaceful home and a loving partner, you are happier and healthier (unless there are some other pressing health issues). You smile and laugh often, this improves your blood circulation. The thought of having a loving partner who you care about and who equally adore you wakes you up each day with so much enthusiasm and hope. It makes you feel strong. A blissful marriage gives you a peaceful home. When your heart is at peace, your stress level is lowered and the risk of developing brain diseases is reduced as you hardly have much to worry or crack your brain about. You have got a spouse that cares, who you can share your problems with.
* You are never alone*
So many people are married but are very lonely, a lot are just living each day as it comes. One of the benefits of having a blissful marriage is that you are never alone or lonely. You have got a great companion in your spouse. Even when he or she is not physically around, your soul is united. You never stop communicating. When you are truly in love with someone and they aren't physically with you, you do all you can to keep the communication alive. In a blissfully marriage, you are always wanting to be with your spouse, going to places together, engaging in activities together and making each other laugh like kids. The intimacy you enjoyed as husband and wife is stressless and very enjoyable as you both understood each other perfectly and are committed to making each other happy. You communicates your sexual needs perfectly. A sexually fulfilled spouse is an happier spouse.
*You have got yourself a great friend*
Couple that are trulye in love and in a blissful union see each other as best friends. With your best friend, it's so easy to be yourself, to open up and pour out your heart's pains and desires. You shares each other burdens and help seek solutions to each other problems. You are motivated and empowered to face each day as it comes and have great expectations for the future.
* A blissful marriage produces and nurtures godly, morally upright and highly intelligent kids*
Kids that are brought up by loving couple tend to understand from a tender age what love is. They grew up in an environment full of love and affections. They are taught by both parents to be upright and what a peaceful home should be like. Such kids do perfectly well with their studies.They are bold, courageous and very smart. They have both Mummy and Daddy being there for them and acting as the perfect role models. Later in life, they find it easier developing sound relationships with people and know how to treat and interact with the opposite sex.
* You feel fulfilled *
Right from when you married your spouse to child rearing stage to old age, whenever you think of your marriage you always have this fulfillment within you. Even if you aren't so successful business/career wise, you won't see yourself as a failure. Looking back at your life at old age, you will be happier with yourself......... you made a great home happened, brought smiles to your spouse's face always, and raised wonderful and godly children. U would feel fulfilled. Your marriage will be your security at old age because you will never be alone. You have got a wonderful family you raised.
To make your home a loving and peaceful abode and enjoy the benefits therein, remember you need to work at it. It takes commitments from both parties but it's never impossible. Enjoy your marriage when you still can and make your home a little Paradise on earth.
-Alashake
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