*You are in love with this handsome and terrific guy who make your heart skips with butterflies flying in your stomach, but whenever you fight, he gets so angry, throw and destroys things around the house .........My dear, don't wait, pick your shoes and run like someone that just seen a ghost. Quit that relationship!
*You are dating this wonderful guy and really looking forward to spending the rest of your life with him but he always want to know your every movement............where you were, where you are, what you are doing, with whom you are, the contacts on your phone, whose call you just received. Tell you where to go, where not to, and chose who your friend(s) should be......... Sweetie, you are dealing with an obsessed and possessive guy, run like someone being chased by a masquerade and quit that relationship. For this is no love but modern slavery and he trust you not. A person that love you will trust you unless you gave him reasons not to.
*You have got this lover boy who you can't imagine living without. You love him so much you are ready to do all he wants and make him happy always but he can't just seem not find something to blame you for. He complains and nags about almost everything and hardly shows appreciation. He tells you he is the man, decides what you are to do, says he is always right, talk down on you and belittle you. Make you feel bad whenever you don't do according to his wish...........Baby, you are dealing with a manipulative idiot. Drop him like some bad news and move on. You deserve better than a dictator.
*You are a lady and you know you have got a loose tongue, have anger issues and really wished to get married..............Honey, first thing first, go work on yourself and tame your tongue or at most, go for anger management program. The truth is, if you have a very hot temper coupled with a loose tongue, you are going to have an hard time in your matrimonial home. This is because if you don't lose your cool with your husband, you could lose it with his family or the neighbours.
If you can't successfully tame your tongue, you have two options; either remain single or marry a dummy man or a man who loves you to the moon and whatever you do is always okay by him. No man can live peacefully with an hot tempered and loose tongued woman. No man wants a woman who would run down his destiny with her loose mouth.
*If your instincts tell you something is not right, pay attention. There is the possibility that something is definitely not right. Find out what the thing is, don't over look it all in the name of love and go ahead and marry a man that will later turned you into a punching bag. If he ever shouts at you so hard, raised his hand as if he wanted to slap you or worse, gave you a slap while you are still courting, please quit! Even if it's just a week to the wedding, do quit! The signs are always there, they just don't pop out from nowhere after marriage.
Whatever is worth doing at all, should be done well and in the right way. Your marriage shouldn't kill you, but to keep you alive and happy.
-Alasake
Right, one must pay attention to signs, even (and i wish this for everyone) smaller issues that indicate that the per5sons might not be meant for each other. I experienced this on my own skin. Lot of disappointments can be evaded if one educates him/herself on relationship, courting, dating, what the other sex wants.
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